Wednesday, July 30, 2008

day trip to ipoh

I cannot believe that I didn’t break any speed limits while driving up to Ipoh last Sunday morning. I told my Mom after driving for a while that it felt like forever and we were still over a 100 km of a 180km journey! As usual, she started to nag on why I shouldn’t be driving any faster than the speed limit blah, blah, blah! Personally, I have to admit that I have grown paranoid ever since my auto accident last year that flattened the front part of the car (luckily, it still runs quite smoothly as if the accident had never happened)! What felt like an X-Wing fighter pilot maneuvering along the main trench of the Death Star now felt like a scene from those Beverly Hillbillies!

We reached Ipoh early and just in time for a particular Hakka noodles breakfast – one of my all-time favorites since when I was a kid living in Ipoh. The present premises is situated right behind the kindergarten classroom that I had attended 37 years ago!

The rest of the afternoon was spent going around the city shopping for tit-bits and eating out at old hawker stalls that we used to patronize since eons ago. I have seen some of these hawkers ever since they were skinny young men and are now old, over weight and running their businesses with their grown children! Nevertheless, the food is still as delectable as though time never progressed!

Whenever I came this way, my ritual would be to drive on my own around the city and to visit old familiar places to reminisce. This time, my cousin brother’s wife wanted to come along and I showed her some of the places that would remain special to me forever. I even took her to one of our three houses that we had lived in.

That evening, we went to a Chinese restaurant for my Aunt’s 71st birthday dinner. I would seem to be long-winded to describe how good the food was but in Ipoh, you only elaborate when the food is bad!

It was a pleasant happy evening and I am glad I made the trip. Mom would try to make her Ipoh trips every year for her (older) sister’s birthday, as they were (and still are) very close. My Aunt and her husband are the most kind-hearted people I have ever known (and I am not saying this just because they are my relatives. Believe me, I do have very mean and horrific relatives from my Dad’s side).

Immediately after dessert, my aunt insisted that we should leave before it got too late. She had insisted that we stayed a night but I cited having to work the next day. The drive back to KL was challenging at some point where I had to fight off sleep but thank god with the highway, the journey only took slightly more than 2 hours. As a kid, traveling back and forth between KL and Ipoh was a nightmare for everybody! The journey would take about 4 hours then and Dad would have to make several stops for me to throw up. On several occasions my poor siblings have to sit by the edge of the backseat where I would lie flat behind them (we were still pint-sized then) in order to minimize any more motion sicknesses that would result to more stops (and smells from after I have puked) on that journey!

Images:

1) Ipoh Hawker Food! From top: Liver Satay, “Chee Cheong Fun”, Ipoh “Rojak” (Fruit sald with prawn paste) and Chinese herbal tea (where I had two bowls)! The food here is cheap with the taste a million bucks! 

2) Traditional cookie shop that specializes on traditional (and some modern recipes) Chinese cookies! This is the kind of shops where you would end up buying more than you need! There are hundreds of different cookies to choose from as well as the smells that would most likely make one hungry at the first sniff as one enters the shop! I was appalled how expensive the cookies have gotten though!

3) I called the day before to order some chicken floss cookies from this shop. This is an old, old shop that my late grandfather used to patronize whenever he came to Ipoh. I think it is about a century old! Here, Mom and her Mom are not not only picking up what I have ordered but bought even more off the shelves!

4) This was the field where I used to play, “Police & Thieves”, soccer, hockey and watched marching bands. My classroom was on the first floor. I also used to play pranks with a friend by shutting off the main power switch while the afternoon classes were in progress (and never got caught while my friend did)!

5) Every time I come to Ipoh, I have to take a glimpse of my school (1971 - 1978). This majestic beauty holds so much good (and bad especially from some of the demented primary teachers who preyed on ‘weaker’ students) memories. A unique piece of excellent architecture!

6) What was a street is now a busy main road and this was taken on a Sunday! The row of shop houses on he right used to to house Ipoh’s first Coffee house (Maxim) and a popular record shop (Far East Record Shop) where my siblings and I would make annual pilgrimage whenever a new Carpenters album was released. My last album that I had purchased there was Olivia Newton-John’s Greatest Hits in 1978! 

7) My Mom’s older sister celebrated her 71st birthday on Sunday, 4th August  2008. My  parents, grandma and I made a day trip for the event. This was her Birthday cake!

8) At a Chinese restaurant celebrating my Aunt’s 71st birthday. Seated next to me is my cousin (my Aunt’s eldest daughter), her daughter and my dad.

9) The birthday girl (left) with her husband, her grandson, son and daughter-in-law. 
 
10) The first dish that consists of four smaller ones on one big platter. The lobster was made into a salad. Delicious! 
 
11) Family portrait at my Aunt’s Birthday dinner! Her other two daughters, their families and her youngest son couldn’t make it for this dinner! 
 
12) My Aunt cutting her cake as Mom looks on.

13) My Aunt blowing the single candle on her cake with the assistance of her younger grandson. 3 August 2008.

14) Ipoh was a town (now a ‘city’) that was surrounded by picturesque mountainous terrain! That was then. When my cousin brother and his wife took me for a ride, I was heart-broken when I saw how these once beautiful foliage thick mountains are now being mined! They use explosives and these natural formations are fast diminishing from the vista of once a scenery no money can buy! This is just so sad!

All images taken on 3 August 2008.

Ipoh Hawker Food!Old Biscuit (Cookie) ShopOld Biscuit (Cookie) ShopMy Beloved St. Michael's InstitutionMy Beloved St. Michael's InstitutionIpoh TownMy Aunt's Birthday!My Aunt's Birthday!My Aunt's Birthday!My Aunt's Birthday!My Aunt's Birthday!My Aunt's Birthday!My Aunt's Birthday!The Rape of Mountains! 

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beginning a search for inspiration

I was unexpectedly taken to a private gallery last weekend after having breakfast with my friend/neighbor MM. Upon entering the premises, I was told to observe the collection there and see if I could paint something similar. The owner and his assistant seemed to know and had met MM prior to this visit. After they had exchanged pleasantries had I realized that MM had actually told me earlier that she had booked a painting earlier, but was thinking of canceling it.


She must have changed her mind since she took out a wad of money and paid for one of the pieces. Art is a subjective matter and I was quite pleasantly surprised that there is a market for such art employing a certain naiveté styling and bold colors. The main highlights were the uniqueness of its subject’s facial expressions that catches one’s attention. The artist’s subjects were mainly young children, cats and dogs.


As I was perusing all the works from this one artist the gallery was then promoting, the thoughts of my dear friend Tenny kept on popping on my mind. But the ironic was that I was glad he wasn’t there with me because he would have given me more than an earful as for years, he had been constantly asking me to paint again. And for years, I kept on making excuses for even I can’t find the answer to.


My fine art portfolio is small and I have only done several sculptures (still at the Art Department of Wartburg College in Iowa - one being a huge Egyptian lady and the other a standing Buddha) and several paintings and caricatures.

When I moved into my own house, I bought a huge blank canvas and told myself that I would fill my empty walls with my own creations. I have obviously not done anything with the canvas and I don’t know if I have been just plain lazy! Furthermore, I haven’t developed any inspiration on any subject matter for my painting.


Maybe soon…


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Monday, July 21, 2008

and baby tuns 13!

The baby of my “next generation” is fast heading into adulthood! Brandon just celebrated his 13th Birthday last Sunday and we went to a nice Chinese restaurant of his choice.

I used to enjoy buying kids stuff and toys to keep them until their respective birthdays. That way, I wouldn’t need to crack my head at the last minute on what to get them. Now, being as advanced as kids of today, they want sophisticated things (and they even sound alien) that you don’t know what exactly they are! The next problem is the price!

Anyway, the baby is now a young adult and I am certainly looking fore ward to THEIR next generation and I hope I get am privilege to see them!

L to R: Brandon and his cake, …his family (with the exeption of his eldest sister, Tessa who is currently in Perth) and a close-up of Bran’s birthday cake. 20 July 2008.

Brandon turns 13!Brandon's B'day with FamilyBrandon's Cake
 

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10 of 10

Sometimes, the kinship that you feel for some of your friends is more intense than some of your own relatives! I had the privilege to know this particular group of friends when I took a leadership course that started 10 years ago on Valentine’s Day. There were 3 modules starting from the first 2 on self-discovery, and the third being the leadership module where within three months, we were to come up with something “incredible” that was done “out of our boxes” or “comfort zones”. We came up with an event that raised more than RM150k for various charity homes and orphanages. The event was featured on the evening news on one of our major channels.

The whole team, that included my second sister Suan, my brother-in-law, and my old friend Steven of whom I had known since high school, made up the 70 something members. We had the one similar goal and that was making a difference to other people’s lives. If I told you that this three-month long course sailed by without any choppy or stormy episodes would be a lie, but those were the challenges that we learn and improve ourselves from.

Some of us managed to stay in touch over the years and some moved on. Some wept and swore with their tear-soaked husky voices how precious we were to them would now look away and pretend that they didn’t see you whenever you see them in town or the malls. Some are like God’s little agents are being sent in the guise of these incredible individuals in LP10 (You know who you are and I am forever grateful)!

I am sure more LP10-ers would have turned out at last Friday’s gathering if the message weren’t sent out at that very last minute. I am blessed to have you in my life and I hope we have a lot more years to meet up and share what challenges in life has given us. To another 10 (and more), my dearest LP10-ers!

Live long and prosper!

Images:

1) Top row: Shan Sern, Victor, Hirrie, Chin Siew, Ng, Liz, Pat, May Yee.
Bottom row: Steven, Yours truly, Poh Fen, Suzie and Mei Ling.

2) At “The Apartment” Bistro, The Curve.

3) The ladies from left: Suzie, Liz, Poh Fen, Chin Siew, Hirrie, Suk Ling, Mei Ling and May Yee.

4) The guys from left: Yours truly, Steven, Ng, Shan Sern and Pat.

5) With some my favorite girls!

6) Old drinking (no puin intended)buddies!

7) Posing for the camera.

8) When these three (’four’ actually, and the other being Liz, not pictured) meet up, you can ensure total pandemoniun but never short of extreme laughter!

9) L to R: Poh Fen, Liz and May Yee.

10) All images at the LP10 10th Anniversary gathering are taken on 18 July 2008.

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Friday, July 18, 2008

fortune cookie 09

The future belongs to those
who believe in the beauty of their dreams.
- Eleanor Roosevelt
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Thursday, July 17, 2008

the morning after

In the aftermath of the political incidence concerning the arrest of Datuk Seri Anwar Ibrahim that I am totally in no position to give any personal views (nor do I want to), paranoia has hit major parts of the country. Unnecessary roadblocks are becoming so frequent everywhere and that hits the rush hour crowd like a stink bomb in atomic proportions! What took me twenty minutes to reach the office ended up 1 hour 20 minutes! With the car I am driving, I could only dream for a better life where I didn’t have to worry that the needle on the fuel gauge dropping like a needle on a freefall right before your eyes! All I could do in my boredom was some text messaging ‘”Oh, my precious minyak (‘minyak’ is ‘oil’ or ‘fuel’ in this case in Bahasa)!” to my friends hoping to find some kind of solace or sympathy in that boring (and costly) predicament!

My boss took 20 minutes just to make a detour back to her house upon witnessing the magnitude of this morning’s jam. She was hardly more than 100 meters from her house! When she reached the office at around 10am, she was in good spirits and joked about how she detested “the guilty” parties involved in this whole political mess.

I have to admit that I was the one flustered with sheer annoyance!

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Monday, July 14, 2008

a trip that lasted four winks and my grandma turns ninety-five!



The journey down to Singapore was unexpectedly comfy. In addition to that, being similar to what you get on airplanes nowadays, each seat was equipped with its own “entertainment centre” or console where the passengers could get access to videos, games and music. I watched Danzel Washington’s, “Dejavu” and that helped kill boredom!

It is always worthwhile to make journeys to see our loved ones. The last time I saw my sister and brother-in-law was last November when I moved into my own house (and my niece in MAY). This trip was deliberately a non-shopping trip for me unlike previous trips whereby I would end up at Orchard Road, or any other shopping malls the minute I stepped onto Singapore soil! For this trip, there were no other shopping sprees other than the purchase of 4 SACDs-period! My only Orchard Road visit was to The Paragon for a session at the gym! I am amazed at myself for being this “Good”, or shall I say, “Well-behaved”! I found myself being too physically weary due to the heat, and especially the crowd most of the time! I don’t exactly know why I felt this way but if I must say that age has something to do with it, then I guess it would be something that I have to accept and can’t do anything much to change it!


My old friend, Mike managed to get “time off” from his regular routine on work (his own design company anyway) and family after his wife, Michelle got a day off from flying (she is an air stewardess for SIA) and offered to take care of their sonfor the day. With that, Mike and I spent the day on food, chatting (reminiscing),and in a way visited a few places that we used to frequent when we were students. It would have been therapeutic for me if it wasn’t for the heat! Mike and I used attend the La Salle School of Art in the late eighties. The “school” is now a “college” and has its own building.

As usual with time, four days came and went in four little winks and I found myself on my journey back to KL. I managed to watch two movies on on the bus and that helped cutting the journey short! Or so it felt like it did.

On Sunday, my maternal grandma celebrated her 95th birthday! As usual, it was held at the same seafood restaurant (for the third time). My brother was advised by Mom not to make the journey down since he would have to rush back after the dinner for the next after being a working day. My Mom’s brother couldn’t make it home from East Malaysia and his wife had totally forgotten about Grandma’s birthday when she booked the tickets to Korea that coincide with the weekend months before. She brought her youngest son along with her on the trip. A few of my other cousins also couldn’t make it but the dinner turned out just fine and grandma’s spirit was high! I was glad to see her being happy and as alert as ever!   



Images:

1) The Singapore Eye - Image taken from the Performing Arts Library. 11 July 2008.

2) If I knew Singapore would become what it is today, I would have stayed on! This is the performing Arts Library and I love this cool, cool place! 11 july 2008.

3) Food Republic Food Court - This used to be a ”Kopi Tiam (Chinese for ”Coffee Shop”)” and served very good noodles and ”Roti Prata” (“Canai” in Malaysia)! The Kopi Tiam was Mom’s favorite! 11 July 2008. 

4) Food Republic Food Court - This food court looks like something out of a Harry Potter movie! 11 july 2008.

5) Max Brenner with Mike - I can fore go shopping but not my hot and spicy chili cocoa drink ever since Max Brenner open its branch here in Singapore about three or four years ago! It was also great that I could catch up with Mike. We have known each other since we attended La Salle School of Art (Singapore) in 1989. While one is a family man, while the other spends most f his time in Neverland! 11 July 2008.

5) Dinner at Vis-a-vis French Restaurant - From left: Jack who used to be my brother-in-law’s friend/college mate at Hanover College, Indiana along with my three older siblings; Dad, Mom, a couple from the next table, my niece Laura, eldest sister and bro-in-law Andy. Viv-a-vis Restaurant, Singapore. 11 July 2008.

6) Food at the Vis-a-vis French Restaurant - CCW from top: my medium-done beef steak, a dessert that I have forgotten its name, another one, and another one with a fried banana in a crepe and a cake that oozed chocolate lava sauce when it was being puncured, my niece’s lobster, and foie gras as the appetizer! Unforgettable meal! 11 July 2008.

7) Taking my time and savoring every single bite of the incredibly delicious and juicy medium done beef steak at Singapore’s Vis-a-vis French Restaurant. 11 July 2008.

8) My grandma’s birthday cake commemorating her 95th birthday! 13 July 2008.

9) My grandmother making a wish (top image) before blowing ot her nine candles with some help from her daughter and one of her grandsons (bottom image). 13 July 2008.

10) My maternal grandmother with her family (grandchildren and great grandchildren) on her 95th Birthday. 13 July 2008.


Singapore EyePerorming Arts Library at the Promenade, SingaporeFood Republic at Suntec City, SingaporeFood Republic at Suntec City, SingaporeMax Brenner with MikeVis-a-vis Din-dinVis-a-vis dinnerPor-Por's (Grandma) 95th Birthday CakeCake-cutting ceremonyPor-Por's (Grandma) 95th Birthday
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Tuesday, July 8, 2008

singapore trip 9–12 july



Time to pack for a shortbreak and head down to Singapore with my parents tomorrow morning. Will be meeting up my eldest sister and her family. I am also looking fore ward ofmeeting up with some old friends.  

Hoping to track down some out-of-print rare SACDs too! 

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Monday, July 7, 2008

first year being a house-owner




MM and I are celebrating our 1st Anniversary of the day we took our keys of our respective houses. It was a Saturday and I remember being suffused with a sense of liberation, independence and even fear of the (major) commitment on finally owning a house! MM moved into her unit almost immediately and I moved into mine on 17 Novemberof last year. It was nevertheless an exciting and at the same time harrowing experience for me when dealing with the contractors doing the minor renovations and additions.

Can’t believe that it was a year ago! MM and I have decided to have a little celebration by eating out this evening!
  
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Thursday, July 3, 2008

pain for gain

In 2002, my friend MM introduced me to the gym. I got on but she pulled out shortly after I have become a full-fledged member! Sure, it was hard work but what irks me was her claim later that the gym was pointless and people going there were narcissists! Hello, this coming from the person who asked me to join the gym? Anyway, being a person like MM, a rock-stubborn pussy, I had chosen not to argue with her.

If I didn’t discover that I had mild high-blood pressure shortly before I was introduced to the gym, I wouldn’t even have given a second thought about it. The doctor said that if I didn’t start going to the gym, my pressure would naturally increase and would be followed by other more life-threatening health problems! That was why I was all ready to make the turnaround with my health and the advised 30 minutes and beyond of cardio at least three times a week HAD to become a part of my life from then onwards. I was not ready to tell anyone of my condition except for my oldest sister, as my doctor then put me on a moderate dosage of Atacan Plus (a BP drug) of 32 mgs for two months along with regular close monitoring.

The initial stage of my time at the gym was a struggle! Here was this self-conscious slightly plumb (okay, OVERWEIGHT was more like it!) man with oversized gym-clothes and long track pants trying to hide as much as he could against an environment of fit, toned and mostly muscular gym members. I didn’t know that was my motivation but I saw it as a defeat and constantly telling myself that I could never achieve what these people had! I would make excuses to work late on projects that didn’t need to be rushed in the first place; I had subconsciously manifested migraines and tummy aches that only came shortly before I had to go to the gym. The locker room was just as excruciating as I would only change in one of the stalls as I feared the exhibition of any part of my flesh other than my head, arms and legs would send whomever got a glimpse into ICU.

It was obviously all in my head.

Somehow after some time, I sort of got suffocated with my own attitude and decided to really focus on what my intention was all about. I turned what initially de-motivated me into my source of inspiration. For my own health and life, I adopted the, “Fuck it and just do it!” attitude and never looked back since.

While it required a lot of patience (to still see no physical changes in your body after months of hard work) and self-motivation, I realized that the tummy-aches, migraines or should I say, EXCUSES mysteriously went AWOL. What was also different was that I started to feel better form the inside and also began to accept what was given to me physically and that everyone is different and thus unique (so much for wanting to have Hank Azaria’s body). I had forgotten my main intention that was to keep my heart and pressure healthy and if I do get improvements on my physique would be a bonus. By this time, my doctor was pleased when she discovered that my pressure improved and lowered my dosage of Atacan Plus to 8 mgs of Atacan Regular instead. When I left her office, she reminded me again on the importance (that most people take for granted) regular physical exercise! By the way, my doc and I go to the same gym and I still bump into her every now and then. She has been trying to get me to do Body Combat (I didn’t tell her that I actually did it once but came out crawling and gasping for life)!

It has been six years now and I am still with the same gym. I go there at least 5 times a week. Yes, I slip at times especially when I was working up on the move to my new house last year. I had actually skipped for 6 months and thought it was less than 3 until I asked them to put a check on when was the last time I went to the gym then!

My body has changed for the better and this was, as I have said earlier a bonus. In addition to my cardio of 40 minutes on the cross trainer, I also do weights religiously. Sometimes the sessions are good and sometimes require excruciating efforts. This happens to everyone! Am I doing this for selfish reasons, or for myself? Of course I am but I am also doing this for my loved ones. Would you like to see your loved ones sick or suffering?  Do you want to feel soggy all the time, or get sick easily? If you are but not doing anything about it, stop complaining.

Ask any member of my family and they can swear that I was NEVER a physical person! I hated sweat and I especially hated exercise or any form of physical exertion to the point that I didn’t care the names I was called in school like, “Sissy”, “Snow White (Thanks to my fair skin)” or “Woman”! I would opt for being “the guard for the classroom” while the rest were out playing soccer, basketball or etc (But I don’t know why I eventually did play soccer, volleyball and represented my class in basketball when I was in high school)! I remember when I was twelve, at my father’s absence, I actually asked my aunt to write my physical education teacher a letter saying these exact words, “Brien is not fit to be in your class because he is born weak like a soft-legged crab!”. I made sure in that letter she wrote, “soft-legged crab”!

I would say that most people go to the gym not for achieving any physical astaticism but a necessity to keep them living healthier both physically and mentally! This is a guranteed fact for gym-goer and did I say it also additive (another added bonus to keep you going)?

Don’t even say how much your family means to you when you are sitting there overweight, depressed and constantly ridden with illness! That’s not love because you would have done something if you really love them and not want them to see you in this condition.

Okay! Okay! I admit that I do flaunt a little of my “new” physique some times!

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